Hey Gurka!

Wow, the lates e-mail from her sounds almost "normal".... meaning that it appears that she is engaging you in a discussion about 'mutual' issues/problems like a husband a wife.

Remember, you are ultra sensitive toward lying and cheating, and I would never recommend that you compromise your values or morals, but be careful about "preaching" to her about right & wrong...

I would send her a reply and reinforce HER good decisions regarding her brother... try to let her know that you respect her ability to decide what to do regrding the phone and that you support her.

I think that this is a great opportunity for you to really turn up your Plan-A!

Semper Fi,