I don't understand the bit about it not looking good on paper. Am I missing something that wouldn't be covered by patient confidentiality?

Are you paraphrasing or quoting her, Hold, because if you're quoting her, wow...

I replied "at least my kids like me." She said "you have to learn to want what you have instead of striving to have what you think you want." I said "yes, that would be the road to contentment."

This bit above...she might not have been responding to the 'at least my kids like me'. Her thought pattern may have already been in another direction. Clarification with her might prevent that statement from settling in and growing roots.

Last edited by Soolee; 08/04/10 08:44 AM.
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