RMJ, I don't know that he knows better. We went to visit his father last month when H had his first three-day weekend in our whole life together, and I had to remind him that the rest of us had school on Friday...he wanted to leave Thursday night.

I don't think he cares enough to consider any of us. He did agree to leave Friday for that trip, after I pointed it out, but why should a grown man have to be reminded that his kids are in school during the week? Never mind his wife...

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)