I don't have a lot of comments because I'm not quite sure what to say. I see a marriage where both people are on edge around each other. Both of y'all have a vision of marriage and parts of it completely clash and neither want to meet each other half way. You think he's unreasonable with certain things and he thinks the same about you.

CWMI, is there a reason why you could not have made arrangements for the kids. He agreed to take you, you did not want the kids missing school, he is the breadwinner in the family, it seems like you could have spent some time making arrangements with the kids.

And I don't know why he would post on here either. Depending on the thread posted, either he gets railed or CWMI gets railed. In this thread he's been called disrespectful and selfish and etc. Why would he come here?

Husband (me) 39
Wife 36
Daughter 21
Daughter 19
Son 14
Daughter 10
Son 8 (autistic)