Originally Posted by ImStaying
It depends on who they are asking. I betcha that numerous waywards would not admit that infidelity caused their divorces. They would claim that all of those other things on the list caused their divorce, and that their infidelity was just a side effect of those marital problems.

Of course. No WS is going to admit that their cheating caused the destruction of the marriage. The cheating is always just a "symptom".

Even Tiger Woods's divorce stated the ever-popular "Irreconcilable Differences", which is virtually always code for "One of us was cheating and we just couldn't come to an agreement about that."

Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.