I have a friend that has a house and two kids with her BF...He works and she collects welfare and food stamps....So I am sure the screwing the govt is a big part like you said TAB.

Married couples get the least amount of help from the govt...Well actually we get NO help.

BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile