Originally Posted by Vibrissa
Now you may decide that you cannot meet the need to the level the paranoid person wants.

That is fine.

You are free to set your boundaries. But you will not have a happy, passionate marriage with such a person if you cannot fulfill that need.

This isn't a judgement on any party. This is pure fact.

Someone has a need. You can't meet it and you can't successfully negotiate it with POJA, you're not going to have a happy marriage.

Does that make one spouse bad or wrong.


It just is.

Vibressa, thanks, this is so well stated.

"If you will stop feeding your feelings, then they will stop controlling you" -Joyce Meyer