I'm not trying to figure out how to just deal with it.

I am 100% not interested in a traveling man. I KNOW this. I have known this since before I met my H. And I told him when we got serious.

The only adjustment, make-me-feel-better thing that I see happening is either he doesn't travel, or I find a new man.

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)