And again, we're back to the whole situation where he changed jobs to one that he said had ZERO travel. SH TOLD him to do that. Not poja it, DO IT.

My H said that he has no choice. EVERY job has mandatory travel. That's ridiculous.

How (or why?) would I possibly poja something that I know will result in me hating my H?

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)