Originally Posted by CWMI
It certainly didn't fit in with the 'family-friendly' atmosphere that the new boss touted they prided themselves in. I read that in an email, so I know he said it. "Oh yes, we're very family-centered and are quite proud of our morals! So we're sending you to one of the seediest cities on earth! Enjoy!"

To me, this gives me some hope that your husband was told something different than what is now practiced when he was hired.

Still, I think he either has to tell them he will do no travel, or you have to cut him loose. Your feelings are unbending on this point.

It sounds like a dealbreaker to me. It wouldn't be for me, but I'm not you and you are the one who matters.

Me 42
H 46
Married 12 years
Two children D9 and D4 !