Originally Posted by dutchcourage
Strategy indicates that all situations are the same and can be dealt with in the same way. In know that you are far more knowledgeable on this than me, and that you are trying to help, but can it be so clear-cut that the affair will continue if nothing is exposed?

Yes, it is clear cut because nothing has been done to stop the affair. When an affair is not stopped, it does not stop, it escalates. Unfortunately, that has been my observation from posting on this board for 10 years. Your wife's willpower did not stop the affair in the past and it won't in the future. Affairs thrive on secrecy, so keeping it a secret is to enable it.

Did you listen to Dr Harley's radio clip?

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101