I am involved in a mil family support unit.... but for another country of course (see name grin) and we have been getting some good info on this subject. One I remember which is similar to a method we are using here is in Ft Hood in the US. Its a peer session group meetings with and by blokes who have all seen it and been in it... It has encouraging results. Perhaps there is something like that for your H.

It is becoming very very common especially for those who have done multiple deployments

take care

Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.