I guess the real question isn't knowing about what support is out there, it's how do we encourage these guys to actually GET the help?

There are all these programs out there, but the men won't go get help. They are becoming dangerous to their families.

What can we say or do that will convince them to get the help they need when even their wives leaving them will not convince them to go to counseling???

"If you will stop feeding your feelings, then they will stop controlling you" -Joyce Meyer