Originally Posted By: holdingontoit
Originally Posted By: jackblack
What were you thinking her response would be to your bad joke?


Frankly, I thought that she would agree with me.


Hold we all put our foot in it sometimes, that's life, but I do not know where you get your ideas from.
You can not harrass and embarrass your wife into being enthusiastic about sex. It wont work. It will be fatal. The position becomes almost irretrievable. I'm sure MB does not promote it. I do not know about the "nice guy site" I have not read any of his articles.

The thing is, each time you associate sex in a negative way to your wife, it reinforces that postion. The next time sex is thought of or about to happen your wife will remember the joke and her brain is going to say to her, "I am not enthusiastic about this." The chances of her then enjoying it are nil.