hold, what is the saddest about all this to me is that you have been here for YEARS and have never availed yourself of any Marriage Builders services. MB is completely different from any other program. I have seen Steve Harley and Dr Harley motivate spouses that HATED each other and turned it around.

Sex is not the problem. It is a lack of love.

It is so obvious that the basic problem in your marriage is that you and your wife have fallen out of love and therefore, have no motivation to correct the situation. THAT is what the Harleys are good at. Yet you don't avail yourself of one of the best programs in the US.

WHY?

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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