Originally Posted By: holdingontoit
I am lazy, negative, and gutless. Along with weak, foolish, and small. Combined with sappy, gullible and hopeless. Fearful. Totally convinced I am doomed to failure. And such a wimp that I am willing to go down without a fight. I won't even lift a finger to try to change my fate.

Then I would knock it off. IF you hate yourself the solution is to stop behaving in ways you loathe. Just knock it off.

I have found that the basic problem with people who don't change is that they allow their emotions to control them. They are waiting for some magic emotion to come along and attack them against their will. That is not how it works, because FEELINGS FOLLOW ACTIONS. Not the other way around.

That means that all a person needs to change is the ability to make a decision and a PLAN. You can do all of those things today whether you feel like it or not. Change your behavior and your feelings will change. '

You can make a decision today to change.

Are you on any kind of narcotics? An alcoholic?

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