What would happen if you pushed yourself for a bit and started to be 'successful' (whatever successful is for you and your wife). And then your wife became enthusiastic about SF? No expectations...just research to see if it works.

The worse that could happen is it doesn't work. And then you can go back to being unhappy.

Husband (me) 39
Wife 36
Daughter 21
Daughter 19
Son 14
Daughter 10
Son 8 (autistic)