MB principles would say POJA, but CWMI has been put into a position of either being lied to by her DH or being told if she doesn't like the way things are that D is acceptable to her DH. So she isn't very trusting of her DH right now. If you read her response to Kilted, you can see that she still wonders if her DH is lying about speaking with his boss.

I figured that her DH will be more truthful if he knows there is going to be a certain level of verification and that she will know the truth sooner than later.

She's ready to call it quits and her DH doesn't seem overly concerned about it. CWMI's lovebank is busted. frown

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