Hey, Hold, when was the last time you took your wife out on a date, or for a weekend getaway, just the two of you? I know when things have been strained between me and my H, getting out of the house and doing something fun together without the kids helps tremendously. Do something you both enjoy. Just relax and have fun, no pressure. Don't talk about the relationship. Come on, I dare you to ask your wife out on a date.

Me: BS/FWW: 48
BS/WH: 50
DS: 30, 27, 25
DD: 28
OC: 10
BH and I are raising my OC together.