Oh My GOSH! Hold. You didn't? (lol).

Of course not. You didn't forget - you had the presents upstairs which required caring and forethought.

Give yourself some credit. You can only be sarcastic like that when you know full well you're being played by a manipulator using code language to elicit guilt on someone who hates feeling guilty.

Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1

The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"?

The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!"

If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.