Originally Posted by holdingontoit
Because I like living with my kids. I wasn't happy before we got married. I don't expect to be happy if we got divorced. If I am going to be miserable either way, might as well get to see my kids at night.

You know, there are more than two options here. I know you know that. It's not either be miserably married or miserably divorced. You could always choose to be happy. That is a possibility, even for you.

Me: BS/FWW: 48
BS/WH: 50
DS: 30, 27, 25
DD: 28
OC: 10
BH and I are raising my OC together.