Originally Posted by holdingontoit
Because I like living with my kids. I wasn't happy before we got married. I don't expect to be happy if we got divorced. If I am going to be miserable either way, might as well get to see my kids at night.

My DH has expressed this exact same sentiment (when he is drunk). He quickly retracts it the next day as he is afraid of his taker as well.

I have not advice except to say, at this point, I would welcome his taker. I really would.