Originally Posted by holdingontoit
Mrs. Hold is down on the concept of marriage. She questions whether anyone can be happily married. I will invite her to share her thoughts and feelings. Perhaps this can lead to more honest conversation.


That's because marriage takes effort. And I'm sorry, but if one spouse is out there hacking out a living day in and day out, and the other is comfortably spending the days at home, having lunch with friends, spending money, with no responsibilities, then that effort is not mutual.

The hardest thing to do on this earth is to get up every day and make a living out there. It is given far too little recognition in marriage these days.

Last edited by EasyE; 03/14/11 12:01 PM.