Don't think you are doing worse than me. I am not applying MB. If I were, I would be cleaning up my own side of the street. Which I am not doing. And I would long since have gone into Plan B. Which I will not do until the kids leave. So I am most definitely doing no better than you at applying the MB system.

The difference is, you seem to be uncomfortable enough that you might actually make some changes now. I am far too comfortable being unhappy to make any changes.

When you can see it coming, duck!