Originally Posted by holdingontoit
Don't think you are doing worse than me. I am not applying MB. If I were, I would be cleaning up my own side of the street. Which I am not doing. And I would long since have gone into Plan B. Which I will not do until the kids leave. So I am most definitely doing no better than you at applying the MB system.

You know, hold, I have actually heard Dr. Harley address situations like this on the radio show, where a man keeps going just for the children. One family the wife was involved in an active affair and the husband and wife separated, and the children went into a massive downward self-destructive spiral, getting in trouble at school, etc. They got back together even though the wife's affair did not stop! It was killing the husband, but his children got a lot better just from their parents being together, even through the active affair.

I wish I knew what the date was on that show.

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.