Originally Posted By: MrNiceGuy
(you do know what they are dont you? did you fill out the emotional needs questionaire?)


Million dollar question, to which I'll add: does she know yours?

ETA: unless you thoroughly fill out the questionnaires, it's all shooting in the dark. "I need more sex," for instance...easily met by ramping up from 0 times a month to once, right? Or completely unmeetable because 'more sex' means five times a day. Without the information as listed on the Q's, stating a vague need ("More conversation" rather than "30 minutes of conversation once a day") is useless.

Last edited by CWMI; 04/07/11 12:55 PM.

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