Originally Posted by CWMI
The simplest thing to do would be to ask her for more specifics on romance. The better thing to do would be to pay attention. The sneaky thing to do would be to VR her conversations with her friends. smile

Whatever she ranked as her #1 EN is where you need to start.

Have you filled out the LBQ?

Have I or have both of us? I have she has not, like I mentioned before between the infant and her being disgusted with our marriage she's been very hesitant and standoffish about this whole thing. I'm not sure what you mean about VR(voice record?) her conversations with her friends. To find out about romance or to find out if she is fulfilling her EN's with her friends first?

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD