This is SO true for me as well!

I've noticed that a guy I wouldnt have paid attention to before ends up getting a second look when I find out he thinks Im beautiful or desirable. Weird.

I'm still getting to know the guy who is super physically attractive. But there's another guy from Sunday School who has surprised me by somehow becoming just as sexy. I don't get it, since he's not quite as good-looking as the other guy (great smile, average body, but still looks nice). But we've been hanging out for a few months as part of a group, and best I can figure out, my attraction to him is based on a combination of how nice he is to me, and how obviously he's into me.

Its events like this that make me want to go back to school for a psych degree- I feel like I just dont understand human behavior, especially when it comes to sexuality, not even my own!


"If you will stop feeding your feelings, then they will stop controlling you" -Joyce Meyer