Originally Posted By: Hilltopper1972
Yes I want to follow the plan and it kills me when I stray from it. Worse than that its like a "reset" with the progress we've made.


You are correct. This is the voice of reason. Listen to it.

Hill, you are a really emotional man.

If you want to have happy emotions in your life, you are going to have to let your reason and your logic guide you to do the things that will bring about happiness.

Focus on logical facts like this: "When I accuse my wife of things, I am being disrespectful. When I am disrespectful, I screw up all the progress that we have made and we both have to start over again. In pain."


If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 17 years, who is a beautiful angel.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.