Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
She's open to the working out, gonna investigate it. That would be incredibly sexy and meaningful on my end. Wife might take a bit to come around though.

PoJA workout!

Brainstorm ideas for how you can work out together at a pace and/or intensity that would be pleasant for you both.

Multiple solutions!

Work through those solutions to find the one that you both enthusiastically agree on.

Don't waffle, don't "compromise." It's enthusiastic agreement.

I won't whack you on that one, as I'm guilty of just giving in to whatever the wife wants, and it's her that really pushes me - "You don't seem too enthusiastic..."

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