Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
I know it can't be peachy all the time,

Yes it can, actually, but you have more work to do to get there. It can't be peachy the way you are going about it.

but needless to say this was very disappointing and a huge step backwards.

I suggest you go get a babysitter and invite your wife out to do something you both enjoy at a time when she is not tired.

I can't control her so I'm gonna be a big boy

Ouch. You just strongly implied you are big and she is little.

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.