Originally Posted By: markos
Originally Posted By: Hilltopper1972
I pointed out this was an SD


There are worksheets for this. It's very difficult for most couples to point out SD, DJ, and AOs to each other on the fly and survive and not get into a fight.

YOU NEED TO AVOID A FIGHT AT ALL COSTS. AT ALL COSTS.

Use the worksheets. Is your wife open to receiving them from you?


Yes we have them and I'll ask her if she wants to implement starting tonight.


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD