Originally Posted by Prisca
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Disrespectful Judgements: Starting today I am eliminating DJ's from my life. Specifically eliminating the following below, feel free to add as you see fit:

1. Sarcastic comments
2. Lecturing
3. Preaching
4. Assuming
5. Not keeping score
"I will do this by shutting up and listening. I will also learn to empathize with your point of view and feelings, which are just as valid as mine."

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Dishonesty: Starting today I am eliminating dishonesty from my life. Specifically eliminating the following below, also add as you see fit:

1. Not expressing my feelings to you
"I am committed to Radical Honesty, and will start expressing my feelings to you in a respectful way."

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Selfish Demands: Starting today I am eliminating selfish demands from my life. Specifically eliminating the following below, add as you see fit:

1. Not asking for anything that you are not enthusiastic about.
2. Not asking for things that cause me to gain at your expense.

3. I will be patient.
I will accept "no" as an answer. I will use the "friends of good conversation" to negotiate a solution that will make both of us happy.

Ok all typed up and ready to go.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD