Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
Btw, do I ever get the benefit of the doubt from you markos? From my perspective you have decided what went down incorrectly and furthermore assume it is something I make a habit of. Not cool. I'm working hard and I cone to you for advice yet you repeatedly come to conclusions that nearly always attempt to point out me being a jerk when nothing of the sort took place. I am here to follow the plan and ask a lot of questions not defend myself over nothing. I would appreciate you helping me create love in my marriage and I don't believe your assumptions do that very well.

Okay. You are free to disregard my advice.

Personally I have some ideas where I suspect some landmines and bombs might be, and I would like to let you know where they are so that you don't step on them.

I think yesterday I was asking if, in 2-3 days, you would be back to demanding/judging/AOing when your needs aren't met. Again we are at a situation where your needs aren't being met. In my opinion, the absolute most important thing you can do right now is to not do ANYTHING that even REMOTELY looks to Grace like an SD, DJ, or AO. If you want the withdrawal problem to get better, you've got to look at the cause.

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.