Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
it was actually abetterme that decided I never tell my wife where I am

Hilltopper, I NEVER said you NEVER tell your wife where you are. I asked if were normal for you to not keep her up to date on your whereabouts. This WASN'T an accusation, this was a QUESTION. That's why it ended with a ? and not a !

This is the quote that gave me the impression you left without saying anything:

Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
I usually do this time but she was blow drying her hair so I figured no big deal.... She also said she had planned on giving me a hug but I left before she got the chance.

If if this was all my husband said to me when he left for the day,

Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
"I have to get gas, here is the baby, have to leave now."

I'd get the impression he was irritated with me because it came across as very cold.

Last edited by aBetterMe; 05/11/11 03:21 PM.


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