And it's been this long and neither one of you have filled out the ENs questionaire? No wonder neither one of you know what needs you want met or how you want them met. And yet you're getting mad at something she doesn't know how to do.

This is like banging a pinata. Take the blindfold off.

Husband (me) 39
Wife 36
Daughter 21
Daughter 19
Son 14
Daughter 10
Son 8 (autistic)