Originally Posted By: Hilltopper1972
Went out with friends last night to sushi without any of the kids....

1. The Harley's were VERY clear that we need to have UA time away from all three kids and that we should not WAIT on making this happen.

UA time should be time away from your kids AND from your friends. It should be time during which you focus exclusively on each other. It is good that you went out, but it should have involved only you two. You cannot meet the need for intimate conversation - one of the needs you can meet over dinner - with other people present.


BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.