Yes, don't do UA time with friends! Make it just the two of you and talk, talk, TALK! Being mindful of Harley's friends and enemies of good conversation. smile

This is the key to making a time that your wife will want to get away from the kids for awhile for. smile

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.