I have to disagree, Kilted...Hold said that even if she offered him sex, he would turn her away.

I know HOTI's story and I remember when he NEEDED her to get a job and he NEEDED her to lose weight--seems that she's hitting her targets and he's just finding another reason not to get close to her.

Regardless, in her mind, she feels that she's met his needs--what if she finds a richer man who can get along with her and she dumps him?

Married 6 years on July 23, 2011--no issues and deeply in love--thanks, MB!

I'm convinced that I'm married to the most wonderful man alive....

I hear and I forget. I see and I believe. I do and I understand. Confucius (B.C. 551-479)