Originally Posted by holdingontoit
I know I am not meeting Mrs. Hold's needs. I know she is therefor vulnerable to an affair.

Vulnerable and willing to engage in are two way different things. Dr. Harley believes we're all wired for an affair whether needs are met or not. However, regardless if we getting needs met or not, we are still responsible in whether we engage in affair activities or not.

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