I'm not picky about coffee, so when he makes it I simply thank him for doing so. My complaints are really centered around my H's IB, or when he's done other things that hurt my feelings. If you've read my thread, I've got two basic complaints right now that have smaller complaint components: he canceled our anniversary weekend away in favor of a work event involving cheerleaders, and he's in discussions with a man about doing a hobby that I don't want him to do, and he's known this for six years now. So yeah, I complain about those things. In return, I get my gifts rejected, get screamed at over the phone and hung up on. Fun!

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)