Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
So then she said, well I don't want you to drink wine tonight either. I complained to her that we had negotiated to discuss in the morning, but now she was demanding that I don't drink wine tonight.

Even if she makes a demand, you still do nothing without the enthusiastic agreement of your spouse.

Love busters on her part do not justify love busters on your part.

So I guess, yes I had wine even though she didn't want me to.

You guess?

She demanded I don't have wine and I had it anyways.

Quit looking at her. Look at you. She will never want to change if you aren't willing to change.

Get the plank out of your own eye and quit attempting to pick the specks out of hers.

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