Well, POJA would say that until you decide, you don't have sex. I might be inclined to wear a condom then. You said it's not just a 20 min procedure and 48 hours recovery time. I'm confused. What do you mean by this statement?

For me it was a 46 min procedure from check in until walking out of the clinic and about a 72 hour downtime on the couch. I was back in the gym within 2 weeks doing lighter stuff and then back to squatting and deadlifting within 3-4 weeks.

But you're right. She's not POJAing it.

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