Having had 3 accidental pregnancies I understand your wife's side. But, at the same time, SF is so important in a marriage.

Good luck figuring it out!

Edited to add - POJA isn't about her bullying you into decisions. I did that to my DH for a long time, and still sometimes do. We've both gotten better about stepping out of the cycle when we get into it, but you've got to POJA everything or MB won't work. Trust me on that, and I'm no vet. wink

Last edited by HopefulNC; 06/09/11 04:16 PM.
Me: 30
Him: 39
Together 5 years
Married the very best man in the world 04/06/2013 after being common law for too long. I'm a lucky woman.
7 Cats - Viscount Ashley of Leftfield, Pawkie Petunia, The Timinator, Leo the Lionheart, Fruit Snack, Cloud, and Barret
And our very lucky pony, Starbucks