Originally Posted by rubydoo
Hill...may I ask why you are unwilling to get a vasectomy but at the same time expect grace to take care of the birth control issue herself...through IUD, bc, etc. You seem frustrated that she is not willing to choose one of the options women have while you are refusing the option men have.

For what it is worth...my H had a vasectomy and was back playing golf 3 days later.

Huh? Where did you gather my wife and I are not exploring all options together? I sent her a list of the issues I have with getting a vasectomy. We have yet to meet with doctor to go over all other options, that is next week.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD