Originally Posted By: markos
Originally Posted By: markos
Call one of those friends and say "I was hoping to plan a date with Grace. Would you be available on X? Really? Great! I haven't talked to her yet, but I'm going to see if she's interested, and then call you back to confirm. I'm not sure if we'll be taking the baby or not." Then tell Grace you've arranged babysitting for X night and tell her you'd like to take her out. Give her the option of taking the baby or not. Give her the option of saying yes or no. Give her some selected date activities to choose from, and give her the option of proposing her own suggestions.

You are going to have to learn the skill of making a date with your wife!


I see Grace is still arranging babysitting.

Since coming to Marriage Builders, how many times have you arranged babysitting? How many times has Grace done it?

It will deposit valuable love units if you do more of the planning and arranging for dates.


I arranged the date last weekend, remember? VIP, meet the Sushi Chef, Four Seasons Hotel, etc? I intend to do that again tonight, but she has expressed a desire to plan the babysitters on her own.


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD