Originally Posted by HoldHerHand
On my phone, so short and simple.

Doing dishes has nothing to do with her request, unless you truly hate it. If you want to do the dishes, do them. If you want to do some laundry, do it. If these things don't make you miserable to do, it at least keeps you busy while she deals with her funk, and can open up time for UA.

"You don't have to do that..."

"Thank you, dear. I'm doing it because I want/like to."

Doing these things don't make me miserable, in fact I do the cooking so I like to have the kitchen clean before I do. I'm not sure what you mean about it "can open up time for UA." Please explain.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD