Has anyone experienced somewhat of a "mourning period" as it pertains to your pre-marriagebuilders life and your post-marriagebuilders life? What I mean is despite the very positive and exciting of rebuilding a marriage, did anyone feel sad that they could no longer engage in some of the independent behavior or lifestyles that got them into trouble in the first place? The changes we make through the MB Program inevitably will cause us to eliminate certain pieces of our lives that we might have found enjoyable but that was an LB for our spouse. So although the journey ends up being well worth it, the inevitable change might also cause some "mourning" along the way. I'd like your thoughts and experiences on the subject.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD