Just got back from vacation with my family and a few other families. It was fun but tiresome. Wife and I have not been following the program nearly as much as we did before. I don't even know where she put the workbook. I've approached her a few times about being concerned but she seems disinterested. She keeps saying she doesn't want to talk about it. The LBs are few and far between, but the meeting of ENs are pretty much dead so I'm unhappy again. No SF in three and a half weeks. Affection is fairly infrequent. I could be better, but have tried to focus hard on her two most important ENs which are financial support and admiration. Have any of you Vets kind of drifted away from the MB Program and found yourselves in need of going back to the basics?

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD