Holding,

I don't understand that mentality - there are side effects and other reasons not to have a V. The wife could get an IUD put in and have sex the same day. Easy Peasy, no pain, no hormones.

She's not exercising her options for BC either. He's got one option that is a surgical (albeit minor) procedure when women have at least 15 options that are non surgical that she's outright refusing.

Steph

Me: 30
Him: 39
Together 5 years
Married the very best man in the world 04/06/2013 after being common law for too long. I'm a lucky woman.
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